If you’re not, already 😀
How to become devastatingly charming? BE YOURSELF!!!
Ah ha. Therein lies the problem.
Who are you? Who am I? Who were you? Who are you striving to become?
Shit. What were we talking about? Oh yeah. How to become devastatingly charming.
Charm is a perception others can have about you in a given moment. Its not a permanent personal trait, it can be, but for most, its usually not. The dictionary defines charm as the ability to arouse delight or admiration. So by this definition we are going to find people charming that we already have a degree of like and admiration for. Now things are really going to get tricky. Your ability to charm will depend greatly on whether that person likes you in the first place, and some people that we like, or that like you, we will NEVER find you charming!
Gah D: WTF, Ray. I JUST WANT TO BE DEVESTATINGLY CHARMING!!! How do I do that?
First, be careful what you wish for 😀 But seriously, just be yourself. This reminds me of what I tell friends that are anxious prior to interviewing for a new job, if they don’t get hired they didn’t want to work for that company anyway. You can’t make people like you, as in a genuine like, not a superficial like.
GAAAHHHHHH! Raaaaaayyyyyy!!!! Why are you making this complicated!!!
I’m not. It is what it is. Complicated. Simple. Its all about perspective.
Be you. Like who you are. Get up in the morning, look in the mirror, and good, bad, or otherwise, that is who you are today. Own it. Love it. Love you. Go out and rock it. That is charming. Comfort, acceptance of who you are. Will you charm everyone? You will charm only those people that matter. People that are not charmed by you are living in a separate reality that doesn’t include your awesomeness. You go be you, rock it, own it, love it. Love you, EVERYDAY!!!
That is devastatingly charming.