Two presumptions:
1) You were sexy, at one point.1
2) You know what sexy is.
I think sexy is more about attitude than anything physical.
Allure – the quality of being powerfully and mysteriously attractive or fascinating.
Charming – behaving in a friendly, pleasant way that makes people like you.
Enchant – fill with great delight, charm
So, I am sexy, alluring, charming, and enchanting.
Do NOT mess with my illusions! 🤪
Back to the question: how to tell if you’re still sexy.
I think SEXY attracts all people to you, in different ways.
Sexy implies sex, but 90% of sexy has nothing to do with sex. Sexy, in a simple definition, is your attractiveness to others. Attractiveness that doesn’t include physical characteristics as a primary source of your Attractiveness.
My Sexy, your sexy is about attitude, confidence, genuineness, kindness and how that is projected to others.
In it’s purest form, SEXY is! If you are trying to be sexy, you’re not, or ever will be. Much like COOL. You can’t put COOL on like a shirt.
Being SEXY comes down to this: are you the kind of person, that attracts the kind of people, you like, want, prefer.
If not, we need a different conversation.
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